Hey, I am not trying to be rude throwing this loving cock into your timeline, not at all. I just want to put something out there about the difference between a loving cock and a mere lusty cock. Back in 2011, I hadn’t realized it has already been eight years, I was confronted with a man cheating on me and it shook me up so bad I decided I couldn’t be in a relationship anymore, that was way too scary! I spent some years enjoying casual one night stands and loved giving my body intimacy in this way. What lacked in this set-up was the deeper connection, the getting to know each others body and… love. For a while it was OK but in the long run my heart and soul started to yearn for the warmth, safety and comfort only a growing mutual love can offer.
Over time I was slowly able to open my heart up to the possibility of new love; I changed the way I dated and dared to be vulnerable again. Sure, in the years that followed I was confronted with my own old painful patterns, men that ghosted me or lovers that weren’t ready for a committed relationship. But my heart is strong and I kept on opening up instead of putting up a wall. When meeting my loving man things like personality traits, the twinkle in his eye, his kind heart and his smile are of course most important but I can’t neglect that sex remains important as well. So this drawing is an ode to the loving man with the loving cock!
On a side note: Did you know that the word cock – kok in Dutch means: chef/cook? Another great thing to find in a loving man: cooking skills! How lovely to be able to cook a meal together or to be surprised by a diner prepared with love. It isn’t so hard to be happy in these circumstances. I tell you, life feels quite great lately. I wish you all this and more ♥